Describe it the way a school describes a fire drill, as something families practice so everyone knows what to do. A calm voice on a calm day goes a long way.
Give each child a job in the plan, like holding the leash or carrying the flashlight. A job gives a child something to do, which tends to ease worry.
Ways to bring it up
- Answer questions honestly, at the level the child asked.
- Walk the meeting spots and run a power-out night together, and keep the mood light.
- Make sure each child knows their address, at least one phone number, and who to call if they cannot reach you.
- Let older kids fill in their own school page.
After something scary
- Children often take their cues from the adults around them.
- Many find it easier to cope when routines stay the same and news coverage is limited.
- If a child seems very worried for several weeks, a pediatrician or a school counselor can help.
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